Hiyah my beautiful sparkling Snowglobes!
And now to today´s topic: what turns me on and what turns me off? I´ll start with the turn off´s.
1) A bad character. Seriously, a guy can look as handsome as possible, if he isn´t nice and honest I don´t want to have anything to do with him.
2) Smelling. A guy should take care of his body and not smell of old sweat. If he was just at the gym, I totally understand it, but otherwise please shower and brush your teeth ;)
3) Criticizing. Of course he has his own opinion and I don´t mind getting corrected when I´m wrong or if he states my faults and we´d discuss how I can be better (and the other way round) - if it´s reasonable. I don´t want him to criticize everything I´m doing or saying just because he doesn´t like it.
4) Thinking he is the best. Nope, you are not. Leave me alone.
I guess that were the turn off´s. At least all that came to my mind right now. Here are my turn on´s:
1) Playing an instrument, especially piano. Whenever I see a guy playing the piano I have the sudden urge to walk up to him and hug him from behind. Don´t ask me why, it makes the butterflies in my stomach flying. Especially when he´s good looking or when I already liked him as a friend. Same goes for of he can sing well.
2) Being nice to others. If he treats his family or older people or children well, he´s a keeper. My dad used to say "The way a guy treats his family - especially his Mom - is how he´ll treat you".
3) If he loves reading. That is such a turn on, especially if we´d like the same sort of books!
4) Making me compliments/commending me. And I don´t mean things like "You´re the most beautiful person on earth and if you were gone I couldn´t live anymore". I mean stuff like "Your voice sounds nice" or "You did that thing well". There´s that one guy in my congregation (I already told you I´m religious right? I´m one of Jehovah´s Witnesses and we don´t go to church, we have meetings at a congregation - just so you know what I´m talking about), and whenever I had a `talk´ in congregation, he comes to me afterwards and tells me that I did well and that it was very good. Things like this = make me feel giddy of happiness and shy at the same time. (And yes, it might be that I fancy him a tad - which he shall never know.)
There you go :D Four points each, I couldn´t think of more. What turns you on and off? Tell me in the comments please, I´m curious!
Also if you want me talking about something in particular, please tell me (either in the comments or on Instagram).
Vanessa xxx
Speaking of snowglobes - I recently got a new one from my BFF (from Corfu); These are all I have at the moment:
1) A bad character. Seriously, a guy can look as handsome as possible, if he isn´t nice and honest I don´t want to have anything to do with him.
2) Smelling. A guy should take care of his body and not smell of old sweat. If he was just at the gym, I totally understand it, but otherwise please shower and brush your teeth ;)
3) Criticizing. Of course he has his own opinion and I don´t mind getting corrected when I´m wrong or if he states my faults and we´d discuss how I can be better (and the other way round) - if it´s reasonable. I don´t want him to criticize everything I´m doing or saying just because he doesn´t like it.
4) Thinking he is the best. Nope, you are not. Leave me alone.
I guess that were the turn off´s. At least all that came to my mind right now. Here are my turn on´s:
1) Playing an instrument, especially piano. Whenever I see a guy playing the piano I have the sudden urge to walk up to him and hug him from behind. Don´t ask me why, it makes the butterflies in my stomach flying. Especially when he´s good looking or when I already liked him as a friend. Same goes for of he can sing well.
2) Being nice to others. If he treats his family or older people or children well, he´s a keeper. My dad used to say "The way a guy treats his family - especially his Mom - is how he´ll treat you".
3) If he loves reading. That is such a turn on, especially if we´d like the same sort of books!
4) Making me compliments/commending me. And I don´t mean things like "You´re the most beautiful person on earth and if you were gone I couldn´t live anymore". I mean stuff like "Your voice sounds nice" or "You did that thing well". There´s that one guy in my congregation (I already told you I´m religious right? I´m one of Jehovah´s Witnesses and we don´t go to church, we have meetings at a congregation - just so you know what I´m talking about), and whenever I had a `talk´ in congregation, he comes to me afterwards and tells me that I did well and that it was very good. Things like this = make me feel giddy of happiness and shy at the same time. (And yes, it might be that I fancy him a tad - which he shall never know.)
There you go :D Four points each, I couldn´t think of more. What turns you on and off? Tell me in the comments please, I´m curious!
Also if you want me talking about something in particular, please tell me (either in the comments or on Instagram).
Vanessa xxx
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